and

Speaking to folk, I often hear them express a need to choose:

I would love to work less but I need the money.
I want to help but saying yes all the time makes me feel resentful.
I want to feel close but I need some space.

I often wonder if a choice is necessary.
I am curious about whether an and is possible:

How could you work less and still have enough money?
Would it be possible to help and still respect your boundaries?
How might you keep your closeness and also also maintain your autonomy?

Consideration of and can scaffold you to a higher perspective.
It can lead to an unexplored, in.between territory that promises innovation and greater joy.
[lovely].