Give up!

Giving up tends to be viewed negatively; it is often associated with failure.

But that’s a pity because conscious giving up is a brilliant thing, when it comes to goals. But only when the goal really isn’t the right one for you or when it is really too hard to achieve [not just because you’re feeling a bit lazy, you know].

And if you are planning on giving up, it’s important to do it properly.

That means you need to give up and completely disengage. You can’t outwardly give up but then secretly harbour the goal and furtively stay semi-committed to it. NoNoNo! That will just lead to a whole heap of distress that you really don’t need.

So, lovely people. If the goal isn’t right, choose to give up! Then make sure to let it go and actively choose an alternative. One that is a far better fit.

And finally, take a moment to give yourself some serious credit: for giving up [in style].

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