time is right

oooh! There’s lots happening at Upstairs!

I have finally found myself putting my mind to some exciting changes, thinking about how to make them happen and then getting started. It’s all in the beginning stages but I’m inspired and I’m well on my way.

I knew that I would come to it. But after having two little ones in quick succession, I gave myself permission to Not Push It, to trust that when the time was right, it would happen.

I am so conscious that this type of delicious work [the kind that clients themselves come to see me about] requires time and energy and headspace.

If you are working 80 hours a week and using Sundays to try and recover, you won’t have capacity. If you’re waking every two hours to feed a tiny one and then chasing a toddler all day, you won’t have capacity. Or if your days are just filled filled filled with activity and noise, you won’t have capacity.

It’s when you are full and strong and calm, when you have time alone to sit and think and wonder that you are best placed to engage in (and experience the joy that comes with) focused and effective life design.

Tags: baby love, choices, decision making, goals, happiness